It’s still not a compliment to ask a single woman why she’s single.

No matter how much you might admire her personality, appearance, career, etc. etc. Don’t do it. It’s an insult, period.

It’s always married women who want to get to the bottom of everything. It’s women who have been in relationships most of their adult lives, the ones that fantasize that single women live glorified and sexy lives where we hook up with men we meet on dating apps and purposely refuse their advances to continually stay single. As if it’s some lifestyle we perpetuate to avoid being tied down.

It’s not our faults, except for the fact we don’t know how to settle.

Our demise of not settling allowed us to get aged out.

Why deal with a woman with a lot of requirements, has a ticking biological clock and won’t deal with bullshit when you can filter them out for a younger, less demanding woman?

Don’t act like I haven’t done my research, I ask my male friends all the time what their age parameters are. It’s always a younger range. They can shoot for a whole decade younger and still pull.

Sure, exceptions exist. They always exist, but women like myself are the rule—we are not the exception.

Of course there are caveats. It’s easier to be interested and attracted to someone (regardless of their age) when you actually know them on a personal level, but for the most part… we’re talking about the world of online dating. The fucking wasteland called online dating.

Just trust us.

You would have hoped we could’ve cracked the code by now. We all wish the same. Most of us are accomplished in every other avenue of our lives except the love category. We’ve mastered everything else except finding life partners.

Also, don’t suggest for me to allow to be searched by older men. I don’t have the patience to find out if a 55 year old wants to be a step dad to an infant. He’s closer in age to being a grandfather.

I said what I said—and that is all I will say.