Q & A

I have a tendency to ask questions of which I already know the answers to. Its not insecurity, its just a bad habit of trying to go against my own intuition. I don't know why I do it. No, I know. Sometimes I want you to tell me I'm wrong, so I can live in Fantasy-land. I'm better than that though. I'm so practical. I know the answer before you respond because I've over-analyzed every situation in my head. The jadedness helps too, bitch always creeps up in my business.

The questions are really (really) fucking stupid sometimes, and most of them are regarding dating/men, but I need to hear answers from someone else's mouth—if only to validate my own assumptions. 

Is he going to text me? 
- Its the weekend.
- Its too soon.
- How many days has it been?
- He would've already.

Are they going to care I'm divorced?
- No.
- No.
- Maybe.
- No, the right one won't give a fuck.

Glasses or contacts?
- Glasses.
- Contacts.
- Glasses.
- Contacts
You're never any help with this one… I swear.

Would you find me intimidating?
- No. Yes. Wait, it depends. Give me context.
- Yes, what'd you do?
- No, that's just your swag.
- No. Sometimes, yes.

Are they going to care about _____, _____  or _____?
General response: - Kate, if he likes you—none of that will matter. He won't care. Stop forgetting this.

I'm also selective of who I ask. When it comes to situations regarding men, I usually only ask their fellow species. Ladies tend to give me fluffy answers and coat everything in sugar. I don't need the extra sweetness, although I do appreciate the girl talk. 

Lessons learned from Q & A: Trust your intuition, but ask a dude (or three anyway).